The Number One Attraction Killer for Men and Women
The Number One Attraction Killer for Men and Women
For Men it's Neediness
Neediness is the one great attraction killer that gets men shot down even before they've even opened their mouths. Women can sense your neediness the moment you walk in the door. Whether they get this impression from visual cues or any other way. Know that they can sense your physical and mental state. Here is a 2-step process that can help you remove that neediness' factor when you are around attractive women.
1. Do Physical Activity
Right before you go out to a club, or anywhere that might be filled with attractive women; do some sort of exercise. Let your imagination run wild when deciding upon which psychical activity you will undertake. This exercise will not only make you fitter in the long run, but will immediately tire you out and put you into a long relaxed state. This relaxed state is what you want when hanging around attractive women.
2. Make it an Ingrained Habit
The more often you see women after you exercise the better. Make it a habit to only meet women when you are in this relaxed state'. The stronger the physical exercise, the more tired and relaxed you will feel. Soon women will start seeing you in a whole new light (do not to tell women that you just worked out really hard, as this will make it seem though you are trying to impress them; or they'll simply think you're just another boring gym guy).
For Women it's Shyness
To a high quality man, a woman's shyness is definitely the strongest attraction killer. Self-esteem or shyness issues are the last things these men what to deal with. Some men might even feel as if they are to blame for your shy and depressed state. Women who think they will gain confidence after they've attracted a partner are sorely mistaken. Do everything possible to boost your self-esteem and confidence before trying to attract the man you desire.
Alcohol
Don't simply rely on alcohol to remove your nervous energy around the opposite sex. Many people become so dependant on alcohol that they eventually cannot even relax or have fun without drinking. Even if someone's drinking habits does not lead them to alcoholism, it still may have negative effects. You must avoid these troubles before they turn into great dependencies.
Ease up a little on the alcohol. Know that there are other ways to relax and get yourself in the party mood.