The Best Man Speech - 3 Factors I Gleaned The Hard Way To Never Do When Presenting The Best Man Speech

What can I put in a good best man speech? Suppose nobody laughs at my jokes

? Can I bring up that night in Sin city that no one else is aware about? Let's suppose I make a fool of myself in front of all of those people?

These are almost all feelings that went through my mind when i had been asked to be the best man at my brother's wedding ceremony. Being the best man was not that difficult, however needing to present the best man speech while in front of all of those guests is what kept me up through the night.

When the big event approached, it absolutely was simple to postpone. "It will come to me," I assumed. The days and months went by, and the bachelor party was over and well, lo and behold, the best man speech never ever seemed to "appear to me" as I had predicted.

The day of the wedding ceremony arrived and I had not carried out just one bit of preparation regarding the best man speech. I did not actually quite fully understand when I was going to present my best man speech, and also I wasn't particularly confident of the etiquitte called for. As a result, that morning, I frantically wrote down a couple of of humorous situations on a paper napkin, figuring I might "wing" the rest of the speech.

Feeling positive that I could quite possibly ad lib most of the speech and toast based on my napkin information, we made it through the wedding ceremony and went to the reception.

In order to calm my anxious feelings, I drank a few of cans of beer imagining that this would likely aid my big presentation in front of each and every one of those people. One beer led to yet another, and before you realized it, I appeared to be a little more than buzzed.

Still uncertain of when I was expected to stand up and speak, the father of the bride tapped me on the shoulder letting me know that it was likely about the suitable point in time to make the best man speech.

"Holy crap!" is actually pretty much what ran through my head. It is really time right now (as if I failed to have tons of time to be ready!)?

I ceremonially dinged the cup and declared that I desired everyone's attention. Talk about a race of worry. Virtually all eyes in the place were upon me, planning on me to come up with this landmark best man speech!

Well, needless to mention, I was so unprepared and anxious, that I believe that almost all of what came out of my lips ended up being the new bride and grooms name and how happy I was for them. Also, I managed to mention the night in Sin city, and hardly any one was amused with that little tale.

In the event that it had been even unforgettable at all, it was because of how uninteresting, offensive and predictable it had been. I only wish I had a second opportunity to get it perfect. Sorry to say those second chances will not come around quite frequently.

Thus, coming from my personal experience, I can tell you that three things that a best man SHOULD NOT DO for a best man speech are:

1. Not prepare yourself

2. Drink excessively prior to giving the speech, and

3. Bring up any stories that should not be repeated

Take it from me, be prepared - it's still awkward to this day to even look at somebody from the wedding ceremony, and it might have been completely prevented.

The Best Man Speech - 3 Factors I Gleaned The Hard Way To Never Do When Presenting The Best Man Speech

By: Mat Hultquist

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