You wasn't happy with your last life's companion and looking forward for another dating
? It is not a bad idea. But are you sure that you are ready? We gathered indications which may you help in this question. Maybe it's the most appropriate time to throw lonely days evermore?
Escape bad experience you had in the past
This is the first of all: past should be left in the past, especially if the past wasnt very happy. If you feel that something still drags you rearward try to throw it away or youll only do damage to that person with whom youll be desperately trying to build a succesful marriage. To overcome bad thoughts first of all you have to accept them. If something upsets you isolate it, think about it and try to solve the problem.
If you don't know why are looking for dating - it's bad. You don't have to spend time on dating if it's your friends desire, but not yours. Nobody can dictate his will to you. So clear out your own urge towards dating.
Your kids must approve your urge towards dating
Its you who know that in a full-fledged family there must be a father and a mother, but
Altogether its not compulsory that your child understands it. Try to to your kid that a new person may help you to cope with different problems. Be honest and dont, on any account, lie to your child.
You must not forget that dating a single parent is not that easy
Keep in mind taht staying with a person who already has chilren is not easy at all. First of all you need to get accustomed to them. Then you have to love them. You have to take care of them. So try to appreciate your partner in life's efforts
Don't forget about the clock
Yes, its the final and the harshest question. Try to think about things youll be not able to do when you cast your lot with somebody. Its really that important, cause being alone gives you some time even when you have kids. A new person in your life will take much time.