I'd like to wrap this one final point about timing
. Mr. Right Now is often (though certainly not always) Mr. Right...three months ahead of schedule. It's the 21st Century. Most men are less willing to commit (even to a woman they genuinely care for and are completely comfortable with) until they know you have a genuine, healthy interest in sex and "he" has what it takes to help make it rewarding for both of you. Are there exceptions? Uh...yeah! And if you're normal, healthy and desirable, you probably want nothing to do with most of them.