The uninterested wife is most of the time the typecast as the downtrodden everyman
in anecdotes especially but if you have a sexless wife then you know it is something serious. The humiliation and misery of being refused by the one who was suppose to be your lifetime companion can be an awful experience that stresses marriage to the point of separation and usually from that brink and help you bring back intimacy and love to your marriage.
Start off Slow
While being sweet and desirable is essential to reviving the passion women are not creations to be freely propelled or drawn toward such. If you come in too hard and fast with plans to have sex you will shoo her back further away from you and further ruin what you have . Start slowly by slowly and try to be friends again and learn to enjoy each others company like you did before. This slowly, slowly approach will lead to more goodwill and sexual desire than any overblown romantic dinner. Do not be hasty as it takes time to gain back your womans trust.
Beware the Wall of Resentment
Grudges can build up in a marriage like a dam being filled. slowly by slowly the dam will be breached and it will all fall apart but when the dam is being filled your sex life as your wife may subconsciously not see you as her sexy husband but as the man who did something... or didn't do this and that.
You need to strive to destroy this invisible wall of resentment that has split you from the intimacy of a romantic attachment and as such has effected your sex life as well. If there are resentments, how could you put her in the mood for intimacy?
Talk Often!
You must learn to speak with your sexless wife in an honest, calm and deep way to be aware of the resentments and their issues with sex. This most of the time comes undone if you start focus the talk about yourself and what you want rather than hers so make it a point that you play the role of the strong supportive male spouse and play detective as well on order to discover and solve the troubles and ill will. Nothing more is sexier than a man who can solve problems to most women! Make sure she is always the main character of your conversation so that she will feel the importance you are giving her.
Thus if you are tired of waiting for your sexless wife to snap out of her rut then to act to fix your sexless relationship. Click below to find out more on how to do this by two people who have experienced the same situation.