Ok Time To Man Up If You Are Serious About Getting Your Ex Back
Ok Time To Man Up If You Are Serious About Getting Your Ex Back
I don't care if you're trying to get your ex girlfriend or your ex wife back, there comes a time when you need to man up and stop letting your ex control your relationship. You might say that there's nothing that you an do or ask how the heck you're going to get her back if she doesn't want you any more and you just hit the nail right on the head.
Let me explain something. Have you ever thought that part of the reason why your ex doesn't want to be with you any more is because of how you're acting? Are you even the least little bit ashamed of how you've been going about trying to get her back? Have you begged her for another chance or promised to change or tried being really nice to her hoping that she would change her mind? If so then your ex has lost all respect for you but it's not too late.
It's Never Too Late The only time when it's too late to try to get her back is when you're dead. Couples have overcome some of the most horrific of breakups and gotten back together when it seemed like they would never talk again. You might surprise even yourself some day by telling her that even you didn't think that you would ever get back together but from here on out you need to have the confidence in yourself that you can pull this one off.
Without confidence and some self assurance that you can get your ex back you are just working against yourself. Even if I were to tell you exactly what to say and what to do to get her back your self defeating attitude and lack of confidence would shine through when you talked to her and when she saw you for the first time. Your voice would be full of indecision and fear and your body language would give away your weenieness.
How To Get That Confidence If you just can seem to pull yourself out of these doldrums and you can't seem to muster that sure feeling that you are going to need to get her back try thinking back to when you first started dating your ex. You won her over, didn't you? She fell in love with you, didn't she? Way are you so sure that you can't do it again? Those feelings are still there and it's going to take a little bit of time and some cunning to bring it out in her. I have seen it time and time again but with even a little bit of confidence and some ingenuity you will find some success in getting your ex back and that success will breed more confidence and so on.
If you want some instant confidence, try reading some stories about people that have gotten their ex back. If you can identify with these guys or even read their story and say to yourself that your breakup wasn't as bad as that guy's yet he still got his ex back then maybe you can begin to believe in your own future success.
Overall, confidence and being strong emotionally are the first two steps that you should tackle if you are serious about getting your ex back. Without these your ex will continue to lose respect for you and continue to wonder what she ever saw in you in the first place. Get some confidence and get her back before it's too late..