My Wife and I Get Along Great Except for Our Sex Life - 5 Tips for Heating Things Up

A good marriage is an enviable combination many types of mini-relationships in one

package: part love affair, part best friendship, part mutually-supporting economic arrangement, part co-parenting project (for some couples).

Of course, it is almost never the case that each of these mini-relationships within a marriage is actually performing at full-capacity at all times. Indeed, life is an unpredictable thing, and every day brings new challenges.

Still, on the balance, most married couples find a way to balance each of these little relationships throughout the course of a given month, year and entire marriage.

On the other hand, in the case of some marriages, it just may be that there is something missing in the love affair department. Sure, the couple consider themselves to be friends, they get along well with each other, they share in household responsibilities - they even raise their kids well together. And yet, not much exciting seems to ever happen in the bedroom. Or, when it does, the experience leaves one or both members of the couple dissatisfied.

You may be saying to yourself and to close friends, "My wife and I get along great, except for our sex life." Here are 5 tips for heating things up between you:

1. Tell your wife how important sex is to you:

As psychologists say, the brain is our biggest sex organ. And, the key to your brain working well with other brains is through good communication. Start on your road to sexual recovery by setting aside time to talk to your wife about the situation. Let her know that sex is an important part of your lives together and that you would like to find ways of having more frequent, better sex with her.

2. Ask her if she is interested in making things more exciting in the bedroom:

Now that you have expressed your needs to your wife, it is time to see if you can learn more about her feelings on the subject. Ask her whether she laments not having a better sex life with you and ask is she would like to work with you to make things better in that area of your lives

3. Ask your wife 3 things that you could do to turn her on more:

Now, it is time to get more specific. Ask your wife if there are specific, everyday things you could be doing for her that would things going for her in the love department. It could be as simple as showing more interest in sex, helping her out more around the house (yes, this is actually reported to work like a charm), give her massages, etc.

4. Tell her 3 things that you would like her to do for you:

Now, tell her 3 things that you would like her to do for you. For example, maybe you would like her to spend more time taking care of herself to look sexy. Or, maybe you want her to ask you for sex more often. Whatever it may be, be bold about your requests but be gentle: hurting her feelings will only make matters worse.

5. Set aside togetherness time for the two of you at least twice per week:

One of the most important keys to a life of intimacy between a married couple is to set aside more time to be together. Yes, space (an available, interruption-free place) and time (an open schedule) are essential elements of improving a couple's sex life.

Consider these 5 tips for heating things up in the bedroom between you and your wife.

My Wife and I Get Along Great Except for Our Sex Life - 5 Tips for Heating Things Up

By: Everett Machlachan

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