Mistakes That Married Men Make In Their Relationship
Although both men and women make mistakes in their relationships
, statistically speaking, men make more mistakes in their marriage then women Its estimated that 3 out of 4 divorces are filed by women. This could mean that wives just get tired of husband mistakes and decide to give up.
Its a scientific fact that humans need relationships. We need to share life with someone to feel fulfilled and complete. Those who live alone express an emptiness and rarely develop as well emotionally and socially as those who have a partner. Married couples thrive better than singles and usually achieve more in life in every way.
If we were meant to be together and form a relationship, why do we make mistakes that jeopardize the situation? Some of the things we do that are wrong, or viewed as wrong, are done inadvertently.
Other mistakes are made over and over again even while were aware of what were doing. Partners view these actions as an attack on their person by destroying their relationship. It comes across as indifference.
Men are guiltier of this than women. Indifference doesnt mean a lack of love; it just means the scope of the problem is perceived differently. Men rush to fix a problem and move on to the next.
They ignore the need women have to be stroked and loved because theyre experiencing trauma. Men must learn to fix the problem but not until offering understanding and sympathy about the females emotional stress.
Communicating and indifference could be termed as parallel problems. Most men dont mind talking and can usually offer a step-by-step plan of solving whatever problem there may be. Women ultimately want to solve the problem but also want to talk to feel closer.
Men shouldnt rush to fix but rush to listen and respect their opinion and ideas.
Women want to analyze the problem to see why it exists and why it occurred in the first place. Men tend to be less open about how they feel and play the emotional cards close to their chest.
Husbands should learn to listen with their hearts as well as their minds and ears. Listen with enthusiasm and avoid the tendency to withdraw. Youre not on the sports field here. Youre sharing with your lifes partner.
Husbands tend to think romance is only for single guys while courting their sweetheart. Once the chase is over, so is they romance they believe As the romance dies so does the relationship. Men can live without it, women cannot. Well, they can, but prefer not to. This is one of the easiest mistakes to correct. Simply be more affectionate and thoughtful. Give her little gifts and surprises. Expensive gifts are not necessary. It truly is the thought that counts.
by: Dennis Leese
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