Marriage Was Supposed To Make Us Happy - So What Happened?
Marriage Was Supposed To Make Us Happy - So What Happened
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You think to yourself "here we go again." A conversation starts out peacefully and then before you know it you are arguing and yelling at each other. While no one says it out loud you are both thinking "What in the world happened to the person I married? And what in the world happened to our marriage that was supposed to make us so happy?"
There really is nothing worse than coming home each day to marriage that is sucking the life out of you and causing great pain and stress for you both. While you know the problem isn't unique to you, since you have seen parents and friends struggle in their marriage, it is somehow different when it is your marriage and your life. Most people in a bad marriage would do just about anything imaginable to get things headed in the right direction, to stop the fighting, and to get the marriage that they had always dreamed of.
Some people in this situation will turn to counselors for help. This always is an option but they can be incredibly expensive not to mention time consuming for each of you to consistently take off work and drive across town to meet. Not only are they expensive and time consuming but often times counselors can actually do damage to a relationship and actually be detrimental.
These are the reasons that many are bypassing the counselor and going through some life changing information in the comfort of their own home for a price that is less than one counseling session. If you could get the same or better information, spend a lot less money, and be able to work on your marriage on your own time it seems like a no brainier not to do so. Just about every marriage can be saved and you owe it to yourself to do everything you can do so.