Low Intimacy In Marriage - Origin And Remedies Of Sexless Marriages
Low Intimacy In Marriage - Origin And Remedies Of Sexless Marriages
A Sexless relationships is a frustrating and relationship breaking thing. Many sexless couples end up in miserable marriages or a lot of times go down the chaotic path of divorce. This article will discuss some of the causes of sexless relationships and also a few number of ways to "cure" your sexless marriage.
Roots of sexless marriage
* Grudges - Over time you can build a wall of resentment out of all the small niggles and problems in your lives. This prevents to intimacy and kills the desire for the other person. If you do not work to solve small problems but let them fester this can make you have many sexless nights in your marital bed. This is not something you want to happen to you, right?
* Complacency - While comfort in a relationship is good there is a point where it becomes too much. We become too familiar with our spouse that instead of seeing them as sexual partners they feel more like housemates or brothers or sisters. This is a bad state of over familiarity with each other.
* Body Image Issues - Many men and women have serious body image insecurities and do not feel as fit as they used to be at the beginning of your relationship they are now old and unattractive. Women especially can feel they are so unsexy that they lose their sense of sexuality and their libido drops to zero. This is also a result of a lack of appreciation from a partner.
Sexless marriage "cures"
* Respect for Oneself - confidence in yourself and in what you can do, a spouse and a lover has a role to helping your sexless partner out of their routine. caring for your own emotions and getting rid of the not so good qualities in yourself will assist you in many aspect of life and most especially in being an attractive lover. Your lover will see you in the same way you see yourself.
* Talking to each other. - If you do not talk about the problems there is no way for you to solve your lack of intimacy in marriage. Being able to converse about your relationship at a deep and personal level and not talking about about your "needs and wants" will help you discover the problems that you can start to take action to fix. Do not let a day pass without you and your partner having quality time to talk even the important things, and even just the things you each went through that specific day.
So if you are sick of the lack of intimacy in marriage and are an end to your sexless marriage then click below to drop by my site where myself and my friend Nancy talk about our sexless relationships and how we got over them which may help you overcome your same case.