These days, more than ever before, men are concerned with the pleasure of their partner
. Most of the men I've spoken to purposely wait to climax in order for their partner to reach the promise land. Society has long frowned on masturbation as it relates to women, but for a while now many sex experts have encouraged women to get to know their bodies by doing so. I think most women are capable of reaching orgasm barring a medical condition or side effects from medication. I think it's just a matter of mastering the techniques that work for you and communicating that to your partner.