It may not seem like there are any fast fixes when it comes to how to deal with a
cheating husband but there are some things you can do that will bring him back to his senses quickly. When used properly, these methods will not only get him back on track but can also help you make major improvements in your relationship as a whole.
1.Set your priorities. For some women, fidelity is a big thing. They cannot live with a husband who is not loyal to them. These are a type of women who believe that their pride is the most important thing they have to keep for without it their purse will be empty. Others believe in love too much and are willing to do anything to save the marriage. They are willing to step down and make the adjustments that they think will keep their marriage safe. First thing you need to do is to decide which type of woman you are. If you're the latter type, then start moving; you've got a lot to do.
2.Lavish him with his needs. Men frequently say that they seek attention elsewhere because his wife cannot grant his needs. Now, this cannot be blamed entirely to you because most of the time they fail to tell you what they want. You are his wife but you are not a mind-reader. Seek ways to know these needs and work out ways to offer these to him to save the marriage.
3)Talk to him to find out where he stands on the issues. Does he want to make things work between the two of you or is he ready to throw in the towel and walk away? It's going to be infinitely easier to work things out if he is completely on board for the reconciliation. You'll never know one way or another though until you sit down and have a one on one heart to heart with him.
4)Fill up your dance cards with plans for the future. There is nothing that is more effective at fending the other woman off than being included in his plans and including him in your plans for the future. You need to sit down together and set goals and them make plans for achieving those goals in the future. This gives you something to look forward to as a couple, goals to work towards, and a sense of purpose in your relationship. There are few things you can do as a couple that accomplish so much for the relationship but also for the individual man and woman involved in the relationship.