How to pick up a girl in a bar
Author: happy pig
Author: happy pig
No doubt bars or clubs are the very place where offer a dense population of single females in a small amount of space, which means they are the easiest place to find girls and then pick them up. However, you should get over some things that are working against you. 1. Cockblockers. You think her friends are going to let you sweep her off her feet? Youll be lucky if you can get in a ten minute conversation before the friend pulls her away. 2. Noise. Especially in the clubs, it can be very hard to have a normal conversation with a girl. So that leaves the dance option available, but talking is the best choice to build a connection. Unless she is attracted to your look she will get bored of dancing and then go on to the next guy. 3. Alcohol. Now this is a double edged sword. On one hand it makes both you and the girl you are talking to more social, but after a certain point the girls will get so drunk so at best you will get a sloppy makeout. It will be rare a drunk girls friend will let you take her home (see number 1), and getting her phone number will be useless since shell forget about you the next day. 4. Other guys. I still havent found a bar that regularly has more girls than guys. Chances are you will be competing against a whole lot of desperate guys and unless you approach often you will be lost in this sea of sausage. Its not hard to separate yourself from them if you stand out from the crowd with your own style and game, but it does mean you have to put some work into it. With all those negative, I still have some best tips to approach in bars and clubs. Here are they: Play the numbers game. When you are approaching girls in the daytime, it can happen that you get an email or number from each girl you approach, but at night the odds are stacked against you. To battle that you need to concentrate on quantity, especially until you build you game up. Dont leave the house unless you have an intent to approach at least 10 girls, and actually count as you do your approaches. Use funny openers. Funny openers work much better at night. A good one to use is to pick a celebrity you kind of look like, then go up to a group of girls and say, Hey guys, do I look like *celebrity*. After they answer, tell them you were wondering because the last girl you talked said you looked like him and you werent sure if she was serious or joking around. Touch touch touch. Girls who are intoxicated are much more receptive to touching than sober girls. Take advantage of that by touching often as you pass the 10 and 15 minute mark of the conversation. Good places are her shoulder and small of her back. As you get deeper into the conversation and she responds positively, you can start touching her hands. Go for the make out, not the number. Its a fools game to go for numbers in bars because the chance she will return your first call is pretty low. In fact if 33% of your numbers call back then you are dealing very well. Okay there are exceptions. If youve been talking to her for hours and you have an incredible connection, then by all means go for the phone number, but in that case you should be getting the make out first. Shoot for the ceiling first, and treat the number as a backup prize. Remember this is just a game. There really is no reason to hesitate approaching or experimenting in a bar or club, the last place where you should be nervous or scared about anything. If you bomb, do you really think the girls are going to remember you a day from now? Even if you get a number after talking to her for 15 minutes they might forget you! Bottom line is treat it like a game, dont give a shit, and keep approaching girls until you are either exhausted or come home with something. Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number. After approaching hundreds of different girls with all types of openers, you will finally settled on your own "strategy". So, take the time to make up openers on your own.
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