Men are from Mars and women are from Venus. This is a saying we have heard over and over again and it is very true to some regard, the way men and women communicate is very different and is something males all over the world have been struggling with for a very long time.
Men make a lot of mistakes when communicating with women and a lot of times I don't even know where to start. The first mistake a lot of men make is that they see the dating scene as a competition between males and females. In other words that when they finally do take a girl home it is because they have won a hard fought battle and manipulated the girl into being together with him.
The first thing you need to realize is that females like men as much as we like women. The dating scene is not a battle but more of a cooperation towards the same thing. However, it might seem that way because women have certain defense mechanisms against overly aggressive and perverted guys. The next big mistake most guys make is that they constantly try to impress woman with all sorts of things. These guys are usually split up into two categories, the first one try to impress the female with all sorts of lies while the second tries to impress her with actual facts.
Both of these scenarios show that you have a lack of personality since you try to use material things to get a girl to like you, obviously lying is an additional minus that often makes you unsuitable as a partner. Instead of constantly thinking of various ways to impress the woman you should just know that people can automatically sense what kind of person you are without you having to tell them all the time. It is like when we see a guy and immediately know that he dates a lot of women, he doesn't have to come and tell us as we can just see it off the vibe he sends to the world.
Once you start understanding this you will immediately stop trying to impress every single woman you meet. The really paradoxical thing is that once you stop trying to impress people, more people will become impressed by you and you will start having a lot more success with the opposite sex.