How to get girls to meet you OFFLINE!
How to get girls to meet you OFFLINE!
How to get girls to meet you OFFLINE!
They call it "online dating" but the whole point is to get girls to meet you offline, out in the real world, and to do it quick. Emailing chicks back and forth for literally weeks or even months without actually meeting up with them, is a total waste of time, and it's completely unneseccary!
I mean if that's what you're looking for, fine, go ahead and keep emailing. But I've got a feeling you'd prefer to hangout with a girl in real life.
So, here's the boiled down version of how to turn emails into dates, in 2 easy steps...
1) Realize that she wants to date you and respond accordingly
When a woman writes to you on a dating site, it's because she wants to date you. The only reason emails don't turn into dates is if you personally screw 'em up. So when you get an email, think to yourself, "okay, here's another girl that wants to date me" and then send her an email based on that belief.
Don't chit chat, don't tell her your life story, don't ask her a bunch of probing questions. You are a man whose got things going on, you need to be handling your business, not asking some chick what kind of music she likes.
You should say something more than "can I call you?" But for Pete's sake, keep it brief. Respond to whatever she said in her email to you. It doesn't matter what you say exactly, just make a random comment that is somewhat interesting. If she says she just got back from the Bahamas, tell her about when your sailboat was surrounded by sharks one time, and then on a separate line at the bottom of your email write, "What's your number? We should meet up this weekend if you are free."
If she says she wants to email more first, give her a chance. However, once she's sent you 4 emails and not had the courtesy to provide you with her number feel free to tell her, "I'm not really a big e-mailer" and then give her yours.
2) Call her up and ask her out
When you get the digits, call her up right away (so long as it's a reasonable hour.) It's important to have positive, calm energy when you talk to her. If she gets a nervous, or depressed vibe she 's going to wonder if you are a creep.
So, do what you've got to do to get yourself into a good mood. Go play Frisbee with a friend, eat an ice-cream sundae, whatever it takes.
When you get her on the phone, act casual, don't try to get cute or use some bogus seduction routine. Just say, "Hey, this is Jake" and then let her talk. Don't try to tell her a funny story. Say normal low-key things like, "How are you?" and "What are you up to today?"
If she asks you what you are doing, you might say, "I don't know what I'm doing for dinner, I defrosted some salmon, but I don't really feel like cooking." If she tells you something shocking say, "I can't believe it either, that's nuts." If her girlfriend got her an awesome gift say, "My friends suck, how come nobody got me that for my birthday!" and so forth. Don't try to impress, don't try to be that cocky flirty guy... just be chill.
Shoot the bull for about five minutes and then ask her when she is free this week. When you find a night that works for both of you say, "Okay, cool so I'll meet you at (wherever YOU pick) at 7:00... okay, sounds good I'll see you then!"
Then, go meet her at the prearranged time and place. It's just that easy!
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