Suddenly one fine night you realize that you and your wife are merely living life like two good friends. Sex has taken a back seat and she does not seem to be even remotely interested in sex anymore though sharing the same bed with you. What should you do and how to make your wife think sex once more? Follow these tips:
o Use touch therapy. Touch the areas of her body with the same areas of your own body. For example touch the area between her wrist and elbow with exactly the same part of your body. Hold this body connection for several seconds and watch the changed expression on her face. You could do this with one or both hands. If you use one hand, then use the fingertips of your other hand to stroke her forearm or the skin of her underarm.
o If you are tired after a long day, do not give up and go off to a slumber. In stead, ask her to sit close to you so that you can feel the warmth of her body next to yours. Bask in the 'warmth' of her body for the next 15 to 30 minutes. If possible ask for her bare skin. Once you are in such close physical proximity, chances are that she starts stroking your body to show that she is being aroused gently.
o You may not have to exit your comfort zone to arouse sexual thoughts in your wife. It could just be that you need to try out different ways or different places to have sex. Try it, you might be surprised. Even try different strokes of foreplay to check whether this turns her on.
o Be honest and mention it upfront to your wife that you are craving for sex with her. Ensure that you say this at an appropriate time when she has enough time to be mentally prepared. As surprising as it may sound, honest submissions about needing sex can be a real turn on for women.
o Wives need reassurance all the time. Tell her in as many words, that despite all the differences that exist between the two of you, you still love her and cannot love anyone else as long as you are with her. Let her know that you value her presence in your life and want her every night, even after so many years. You would be surprised at what such frank confessions can do to your wife.