It is important to remember not to just dive into the deep end when asking a girl out especially when she is least expecting it
. It is always good to start off by flirting with her and create some form of attraction between you both. By doing this you will also get an idea to whether she is interested or not.
You can start off flirting by dropping a few compliments and showing her that you are fun and someone who she will like to spend time with. If you are not too confident with flirting, have a look at our top flirting tips article for all the great tips on flirting. How to flirt
As we have already mentioned, an attraction needs to be created between you both before you ask her out. One way in which you can do this is by demonstrating qualities in you that women find attractive and desirable. You need to make sure you are honest and dont make out you are someone youre otherwise she may end up liking you and the lies may come out in the end. Most women like a guy who is confident (not too confident) and who makes decisions and who is a leader rather than a follower.
Before you ask her out you need to have in mind an idea of where you will take her so you sound like you have prepared for it and it isnt just spare of the moment. You need to think about this carefully and think of somewhere where you will both be comfortable and relaxed and enjoy yourselves. Take into account her interests as this will make a good impression on you that you listen to her. You could go anywhere from a few drinks at your local pub/bar, to a game of bowling. Take a look at some more advice on How to plan your perfect first date
Once you have planned it all through and you think you are ready to ask then just do it before you think about it too much. If worst comes to worst and she says no, what have you got to lose? Nothing! Keep it simple and relaxed and dont make her feel awkward; make it seem casual as it is just a first date. Dont just jump straight into it, make some conversation first maybe something that involves the place you plan on taking her on the date. For example, ask her if she has been to the new bar down the road. When you ask her, make sure you give her plenty of notice and plan it around when she is available.