How Can I Get My Ex Boyfriend To Love Me Again?
Most of us have been there, your relationship with your man grows distant
, and he seems vague, pre-occupied and not as interested in you as much. Then the dreaded words "" "We have to talk"."
The aftermath of a break up can be emotionally devastating, you can"t eat, can"t sleep, you lose interest in those around you, can"t stop thinking about your ex boyfriend.
Perhaps your first reaction is anger, you throw away gifts your ex boyfriend gave you, cut up the photographs of the two of you in love, and even go further than thinking how to get back at him.
So many of us try and smother our ex boyfriend, we call, text, email at every opportunity, we hang out at places we know our ex will be, we cry and beg them to come back!
If you want your ex boyfriend to love you again and come back, you need to stop these destructive behaviours, they only drive him further away.
So how can you make him love you again?
1.Agree with the break up. Crazy? Remember it is human nature to want what we can not have, so this will be hard for you, but stick with it! By agreeing with the break up you put your ex boyfriend on the back foot, he"s expecting you to chase after him, it is an ego thing. It also gives you the opportunity to collect your thoughts and approach the situation calmly.
2.Break off contact with your ex. That"s right, no calls, texts, emails or hanging around to accidently bump into him. Give him chance to miss you. By not being in your ex boyfriends face at every turn, he will start to think about you more and in a positive light as he remembers the good times you had together.
3.Do things you love to do. Remember why your ex fell in love with you in the first place? Who was that person? Certainly not some sobbing wreck of a girl who relied on her boyfriend to justify her life.
4.Look after yourself. Show your ex what he is missing, always look your best. You know what gossips are like, there will always be someone who tells him "I saw your ex yesterday and she looked..." make sure that missing word is FABULOUS. If by chance you do meet him, make sure he looks at you and thinks WOW! It works wonders for your self confidence too.
5.Play it cool. If you do meet your ex boyfriend, be friendly but cool. Do not rush up and hug him and tell him how much you"ve missed him. If he asks to meet up again, tell him to call you in a couple of weeks. Play hard to get and be mysterious.
The time apart from your ex boyfriend allows him to remember why he loved you in the first place. It gives him time to miss you. Stay cool, calm and confident, let him make the first move.
How can you get your ex boyfriend to love you again? Remember the 3 C's - cool, calm, confident!
by: Seren
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