The first step on the road to repairing a broken marriage, or relationship, is to be totally honest with each other and recognize that there is a problem.
This problem and breakdown in your relationship will not be addressed by failing to tackle it head on. And this means communication.
Both of you will need to communicate openly, honestly and freely in order to thrash out the major underlying reason for the breakdown in the relationship.
You will need to address the key points that are a problem for you in your relationship..but you will also need to listen to your partner. And recognize their needs and what they perceive to be problems.
Key 2 -Communicate
Your whole method of communicating can be a major stumbling block in a relationship. The way you communicate after being together for many years can become abrupt and closed.
Unlike the way you used to communicate when you first met and never got fed up of just talking to one another.
Both you and your partner will need to put time aside every day no matter how hectic the schedules are to rediscover your ability to communicate like you used to.
Key 3-Respect
You need to respect your partner's worldview, although you may not always agree. You will also need to respect the difference between a man and a woman and the huge difference in interests between the sexes.
You should celebrate and embrace this difference rather than letting it stay as an impediment in your relationship.
Save my marriage now is one of the many topics covered in my blog to help people with relationship difficulties and marriage problems.