That's it. You have just ended your relationship with the person you love. But then one day, it just hit you. You just miss your ex. You are still interested in reconciling with her and getting back together to rekindle things. But what will you do to rebuild the relationship?
Locking up yourself in your room and crying until you've run out of tears is not a way to get back together. Drinking all day till your drunk isn't either! If you are really are sincere and serious to rekindle things with your ex, you've got to do the right steps. Here are the 3 best steps in pursuing you ex-partner again.
First big step is to accept what happened and to realize your own mistakes.
It maybe hard for you to accept what happened and sometimes you blame your partner for the cause of the break-up. Blaming or pointing fingers makes the situation worst. Before you pursue our ex again, you should first accept and reflect on what happened. And when you are in good terms with your partner already, start a new relationship. Forget what happened in the past.
Second step: Calling immediately your ex is not the best way to start all over again.
Before you even call your ex and beg for her another chance, make your own realization first. Remember what caused the break-up and why did it have to happen. Know your mistakes. Internalize on how to make the relationship work harmoniously. When all is done, it's the right time to call your ex.
Last step is to plan for the right time.
By the time you are prepared to renew things, start acting now. Begin with casual conversation and friendship. Then from there, let things develop along the way. Make her feel special always. Do not force or hurry her to immediately make a decision. Take things slowly as soon you'll be back together, happily in love with each other.