Get Your Wife Back After Cheating and Breaking Her Heart
Get Your Wife Back After Cheating and Breaking Her Heart
It's hard to get your wife back after cheating and breaking her heart. She isn't going to gladly offer it up to be hurt again in the best of cases. In the worst of cases she's fighting mad on top of hurt and has one foot out the door already. Even if you're living in the same house and trying to put up the good fight to save your marriage you still have a long way to go before you can really say you've managed to get your wife back after cheating on her.
Here are a few things you can do that will make the process go much more smoothly though.
1) Make a point of telling your wife why you need her in your life every day. If you do this for 21 days in a row, it will become a habit and one that will mean great things for your marriage not only as you work to save your marriage but also in the future as you are enjoying the fruits of this effort. Your wife needs to hear these words of encouragement and they cost you absolutely nothing to make other than a few seconds from your day. Surely your marriage is worth that to you.
2) Go out of your way to make your wife feel beautiful. Your wife's self esteem takes a huge hit when you cheat. There are few things in the world that will have a more negative impact on how she feels about herself than learning you've been with another woman. It's even worse when she doesn't know anything about the other woman because she will forever compare herself to a phantom of perfection that does not exist. You must make her feel like the more beautiful person, inside and out, if you are serious about making your marriage work.
3) Be positive when dealing with your wife and discussing the future. The best way to win her over is to have positive conversations about your future together. Give her something to look forward to in a future with you that you'll both enjoy. Assuming she will be in the picture lets her know that you believe in a future together and that you're not thinking about a future with the other woman you were cheating with.
4) Make her feel secure in your love for her. The one thing you can't afford not to do is make this an emotional decision for your wife. Make her feel the love you have for her and let her know that you do love her in words and deeds.