Is it becoming increasingly important that your man commit to you and you don't know how to convince him? Have you dropped a number of hints about how important this is to you, but he's still clinging to his own thoughts on the matter? Do you wish there was a way to show him how wonderful committing to each other could be? Read on to find out what the great majority of women simply choose to overlook.
One of the reasons men are reluctant to offer up a commitment is their fear of what is to come. You've certainly heard of men who've committed complaining about their complete loss of freedom. Suddenly they have to drop everything they've always enjoyed in order to please her.
And while many men will succumb to this for a while, after all, when a man falls in love he wants to please his girl, but in the long run this can spell disaster.
Show him in the way you are with him everyday that you respect the man he is and the things that are important to him. You don't necessarily have to agree or enjoy everything he does, but your respect is vital.
Don't assume you can just talk to him about this and try to persuade him that you'll never become controlling. You need to prove it with every action you take.
Then consider taking a step back to prove to him that you also have your own life and your hobbies and activities to occupy your time. This will relieve some of the pressure from him. But the real bonus in this is allowing him a great chance to miss you while you're off doing your thing.
Take yourself out of his life just enough and he might even come to wonder if he might not lose you to someone else. And that is a great incentive to stand up and do what's right.
Seeing that life with you is great and will only continue to get better, and realizing that he might lose you, he will make that commitment to you.