You want to get your man back but things have been so emotional and tensions are running high
. Every time you talk to him it turns into an argument and each time you think that hes gone for good. Do you want to know why arguing is a good sign and how you can use this to your benefit if you want to get your man back?
The fact is that without arguing there is no passion. Right now there may be a lot of negative emotions in your relationship and the blowups might be legendary but without passion there is no love. Without love there is no relationship and if he didnt love you he wouldnt argue with you.
It is often said that the opposite of love isnt hate it is apathy. If you and your man didnt care about each other you simply wouldnt care enough to argue. Each gripe or sarcastic remark or whatever you argue about would be met with nothingness. If he didnt care he wouldnt be upset about anything. A lack of emotions spells death for a relationship.
The trick is channeling this passion and all of these emotions into a more positive avenue. If you could just get him to see that his anger and rage is a cover for deep and abiding love then all would be good, wouldnt it? Unfortunately, our nature tells us that we need to defend ourselves when we are in an argument or confrontational situation. It doesnt matter who we are arguing with and it is typically those we love the most that we hurt the most in an argument.
There are actually cases where couple become so vicious in their arguing that a breaking point is reached and the passion of the situation becomes so intense that a instantaneous reunion happens. Thats right there are times when in the middle of such heated discussions a couple might actually fall deeply and passionately in love again in a matter of moments. One might look at the other and ask why they are attempting to destroy each other when their hearts once felt such passion and in an instant the couple is reunited and all the backlash from the breakup simply falls away.
It is not suggested that you try to provoke an argument with your man to try to reach that breaking point just to get him back but this is just an example of what is actually going on behind the scenes in your relationship. Your goal to get your man back does require some tact and understanding and by understanding why the two of you wind up arguing so much you should have a better understanding of what really lies in his heart for you.
Your boyfriend or husband doesnt hate you. Keep that in mind. If he did hate you he wouldnt be upset or emotional or even trying to contain his emotions, as you might often see. You see, there is still a candle of love burning in his heart for you. Even if it is only apparent as a lot of arguing or negative emotions you can rest assured that you do still have a chance of getting your man back.