Get Your Man Back Its Not Over In Spite Of What He Says
Ok, so you want to get your man back in spite of the fact that your boyfriend or husband has told you that its over between the two of you
. You may still love your man and are heartbroken over your breakup and you just dont know what to do. The days have become unbearable and every morning you wake up wishing that it was all just a bad dream. Unfortunately, as the fog begins to clear you realize that its not a bad dream and that you really are alone and the tears begin to fall all over again
If you have tried everything in your power to get him to change his mind and give your relationship another chance you might be working in the wrong direction.
Do you find yourself begging and pleading for him to talk with you about the breakup? Have you promised to change but it seems like he just doesnt care? Have you tried being nice to him but he still doesnt seem to want anything to do with you? Have you cried hoping that he would feel bad and take you back? All of these may seem like likely ways to get your man back but truthfully, these methods are only pushing him further away.
The truth is that by appearing depressed or trying to push you boyfriend or husband into resolving the issues that led to your breakup you are only pushing him further away.
Let me give you an example that might help you to understand. Have you ever met a guy that you really liked as a friend that tried to push you into a relationship? You know the type of guy. Maybe he really is a nice guy but perhaps just a little too nice. The type of guy that simply adores you to the point that it almost creeps you out a little bit.
Maybe this guy asked you out one time and either you didnt want to send the wrong impression or you really did have other plans at the time, so you turned him down. So he asked you out again the following week. Now your creep meter is starting to tick a bit more as he begins to be overly nice to you or maybe he even sends you a really nice email full of complements or buys you flowers before asking you out again. Soon you grew to hate to hear his voice and any temptation that you had to even go out on one date with him was null and void.
Now, take this and multiply it by ten and you have what you are probably doing to your ex by crying and begging and pleading for another chance with him. In spite of the fact that the two of you were once in an intimate relationship, you have pegged his creep meter all the way to the right.
By wanting your ex so much you are devaluing your own attention and boosting your exs ego into the stratosphere. By pursuing your ex you are killing the opportunities that you have to get him back and repair your relationship. By pursuing him you are pushing your ex farther and father away.
Sure, there may come a day when you finally come to accept that your relationship is over or your ex moves on and starts dating someone else. But there will also come a day when your ex will tell you that he regrets that he ever broke up with you. Time heals wounds such as these and in time your ex will regret breaking up with you.
But what if you could fast forward to that time and have your ex feel that regret before it is too late? What if you could cut right to the chase and have your ex realize what he is going to be missing a year from now? You dont have a year to wait and the chances of you getting him back by allowing time to heal your relationship are slim to none. Instead, why not show him what he is going to be missing and send him a bit of a wake up call?