Finally! - How to Meet & Attract Women in a Bar (Without Embarrassing Yourself Or Acting Desperate)

Most of us guys have been to bars and clubs to meet women

. As a matter of fact, that is also the reason why many women hang out in those places - to meet men. But you have to tread a thin line when you try to pick up a girl in a bar. You run the risk of coming off like a shy "nice guy" or a real "jerk" that is desperate for attention. Both are big turn-offs for women, especially the over-confident types. You have to play it just right so that you portray yourself as someone she wants to get to know better and not just a lounge lizard - a man that women want to avoid at all costs. Read on and learn how you can come off like a normal, confident man - and get the woman you want! Approach her casually If she is sitting at the bar, you can go up to her and order a drink. Take a look at her, make eye contact and say "hi". Then order a drink. Try to make it look as if you are ordering a drink rather than just trying to pick her up. This casual approach works much better than the "jerk" approach where you just go up to her and tell her some corny pick up line. If she is sitting at a table, ask for something at the table - for example, a cocktail napkin for a spill. Then make eye contact with her and thank her. The casual approach will spark her to have an interest in you and make you stand out among other guys. Give her a cool "once over" Do not ogle at her lewdly, but give her a very brief once over and a slight smile. This will pique an interest from her. It is flattering without being overtly so. By doing this, you are acknowledging her, showing that you appreciate how she looks. Women like to be admired, but in a subtle way. This recommended approach is very much a turn on for most women. It never makes you appear you are lewdly looking at her, but just giving her a look of appreciation. You can use these two approaches to meet and attract women in a bar, club or just about anywhere. Using the casual approach and a cool once over with a slight smile of appreciation will work wonders for any guy who wants to pick up a girl the right way. The objective is to get her interested in you, as well as to set yourself apart from the other guys at the bar or club.

Finally! - How to Meet & Attract Women in a Bar (Without Embarrassing Yourself Or Acting Desperate)

By: Harvey Alford

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