You know what I'm about to talk about. Your in a club or a bar or maybe at a party. You spot an attractive woman and right from the get go, you have the idea that you want to get to know her better. More than that, you want to be able to get her alone with you and have some fun.
So, you work up a little plan in your head on how you are going to smoothly approach her and floor her with some clever line and she is going to be putty in your hands. This is how you see it going down in your mind. The only problem, is when you actually make your move.
All of a sudden your mind goes blank. You wonder where that clever line went that you were just thinking of. Next thing you know you either make the worst approach ever or you find yourself walking by her like you were never going to stop in the first place.
Now, how does that feel? You feel embarrassed and disappointed. And frustrated because this always seems to happen to you.
Want to know how you can flip the entire situations around?
Look, if that is the kind of approach you are going to try to make, it's not going to happen. She's not going to give you the time of day, much less her phone number. And if she catches you staring at her, she's going to feel a little bit creeped out.
You have to make a much better approach if you are going to pull her number or get anywhere with her.