Do You Really Want To Get Her Back Or Are You Just Screwing Around?
Are you done with screwing around and really ready to get her back
? Are you tired of all the stupid advice from friends and family that tell you to just wait for her to come back to you? Are you a guy that needs to actually do something and you think that you stand a better chance of getting her back if you were more active in this plan?
The truth is that your friends and family are telling you to just wait for your ex to come back to you because they dont want you to get hurt again. Is their advice often followed by you were too good for her anyhow or youll find someone better some day soon?
Waiting While giving your ex some time and space should be part of your plan to get her back it really shouldnt be the entire plan. I mean, how ridiculous is it to think that your ex is just going to change her mind and come knocking on your door one night?
A period of no contact should be just a small part of your plan to get her back. During this time of no contact and waiting you need to be doing stuff every day to improve your chances of getting her back. You need to be getting prepared for that day when you do make contact with her because you might not get a second change to knock her socks off.
Talking Look! This never works. Or rarely does this work and usually when you convince a girl to come back to you it is short lived. A woman that is convinced reluctantly to come back to you will probably leave again some day soon. You dont want to go through this garbage again, do you? Plus, who wants to spend hours upon hours talking over all the bad stuff that happened? Do you really want to play Lets Make A Deal with your ex to convince them to come back to you?
You want your ex to decide on her own that she is crazy in love with you and that she cant live without you and that she is the one that wants to come back, right? You want the power in the relationship. You want to be the one calling the shots. The only way that you hold any chance of really getting her back is if she is the one that decides that she wants to come back to you.
But how do you get her to change her mind so drastically? How can you make this change in her when she has been so dead set against getting back together? The secret is in knowing what to do, what to say and how to say it. Simple, right? Well, it really is if you understand a few things about women and what will set a woman off to make this sort of change in her desires?
The secrets that you need to get her back are in knowing how to move her emotionally beyond what she can handle to create that attraction. This stuff is very different than what you might use to pick up chicks or seduce women because you have a history. The methods that will give you the most success in getting her back will be based upon knowing what her emotional hot buttons are and what her emotional triggers are and how you can exploit them.
Sure, sitting around the house watching TV, eating junk food can be relaxing but it really isnt a plan that is going to help you to get her back. Winning her back and getting her back into your life again is going to require some ingenuity and a plan that makes some sort of sense, dont you think?
by: Cory Jean
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