This next piece of advice may sound foreign given the fact that you and your spouse have been married for some time
. It's definitely worthwhile for you to spend some time getting to know your partner again. Chances are good that you two have drifted apart since the wedding. Life's small trials and tribulations have a way of doing that to a couple. Reconnect again by making time each day to talk about one another's lives. It may feel awkward at first, but in time you'll come to cherish those moments when you two are communicating openly and honestly again.