Dating Tips to Get the Guy: 10 tips to keep YOU on HIS mind!
Ok, lets be honestguys are animals and they do have a predator-prey mentality
. They enjoy the challenge and if its too easy to pounce on the prize then theyll be looking for their next gazelle in no time! It isnt about playing games, its about playing it smart. You still need to be yourself but at first you dont need to reveal everything and giving him a little at a time can pay off a lot! 1) Get beautified for your date! It makes you feel sexy and him fall off the barstool when you walk into the restaurant (if its a first time date than you should meet him and not let him pick you up unless hes a good friend of a friend or youve known him). Get a Mani Pedi (or do one yourself), where a nice dress (only reveal to your comfort level but stay classy (slutty will only have him thinking your easy) and where high heels because it will elongate your legs and is the signature footwear of a women. Remember, if you feel beautiful and sexy then it will project onto everyone around you! Confidence is key! 2) On your first date, try to talk about neutral but exciting subjects. Go with cool experiences, places youve traveled, hobbies etc. Stick to things that determine if you have anything in common. Stay away from personal subjects like your family, how many kids you want, your timeline for getting married, and your last boyfriend disaster! Im not that far off, us women do it all the time and add alcohol to the mix and were an open book! 3) Make sure your not dominating the conversation. Its not a conversation if youre the only one talking! Remember to let him chime in and dont interruptits annoying to not be able to finish a sentence so raise your awareness of the give and take. 4) Always be the one to end the date! This is very important because the more he wonders about you the crazier it makes him! Dont be abrupt, just let him know you had a good time (if you did) and that youll talk to him soon. You can say that you have an early morning and if he asks what you have to do then say that you have to work or work-out, they are two good reasons to get up. 5) Wait for him to call you. If hes interested he WILL call, just be patient and go on with your life. If he doesnt call then keep moving. Dont stop dating because youre waiting on him and keep busy. 6) When he does call, send it to voicemail. Give him a call back a few hours later and let him know you had a busy day. Give him some time to wonder why you didnt pick upremember the more he thinks about you the better! Another quick note- Do NOT get in the texting habit! If he texts you then send back a vague response so hell call. If he texts that he had a great time on your date then simply text back me too. You do not want to let texting become your main form of communication because it does not give you the opportunity to connect and holds up progress. 7) When you do talk on the phone make sure that you are the first to get off. Always demonstrate that you have a life. You want him to recognize your independence and confidence which are both attractive qualities. At first, try to limit your conversations to 10 minutes to make sure that you close out the convo! 8) Reject his first offer on the day for the next date. If he asks to take you out Saturday then HAVE PLANS and you dont need to tell him what they are just keep him wondering! Then you can recommend a day the YOU are available. If hes not available on that day than make him wait even longer to see you. If he rearranges his schedule to take you up on the day your available than you know hes really into you! 9) Again, baby steps! Reveal a little at a time which brings me to the big reveal! DONT have sex to early! That is one of the things he thinks about, is working for and wants REALLY bad so dont give it up. You have to hold out or youre risking losing him. Some say to wait 90 days and if thats what makes you comfortable then go for it but I recommend 5 weeks or 10 dates.whichever comes first! Again its your comfort level! 10) Dont go on vacation before the 5 weeks or 10 dates because hes working hard and that king size bed in the hotel room in his mind is his ticket into your playhouse! Be careful and keep the key to your chastity belt hidden in a safe place! One of the biggest mistakes women make is to go away for a weekend and give up the goods. WAIT and save the weekend away for later! Those are my top 10 dating tips but remember, anyone coming into your life should enhance it not make it what it is. Have your own interests, hobbies, and life outside of the relationship. You want to make sure that if it doesnt work out you still have things that are just for you.
Dating Tips to Get the Guy: 10 tips to keep YOU on HIS mind!
By: inspireyourspirit
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