Dating Tips For Men - Why Women Will Always Have The Upper Hand - Unless You Do Something About It!

When it comes to dating, I think that all men are pretty much in agreement that men will always be at the disadvantage when compared to women

. Well, to correct myself, I should actually say...almost always. And most men seem to accept this as just the way that it is, and they don't think that they can do anything about it. The trouble with this line of thinking is, you give up ALL POWER and don't have any control, selection, or choice when it comes to dating.

And it does not have to be that way. Before I tell you how you can change things for yourself, I want to dig in a little deeper about the current state of dating and why men usually ARE at a disadvantage.

Just down the street from where I live, there is a nice little bar/nightclub that a lot of really good looking college girls and young professional women all like to hang out on a Friday or Saturday night. The music is always just the right volume, they have really good food, and even a nice little dance floor. Now, I can go into this bar and pick out just about any group of 3 or 4 women sitting together, all single, all desirable in their own way. And I would confidently place a bet that each one of them has at least 25 numbers of guys that are "friends" in their cell phones.

As guys, you and I both know that 90 percent of these guy friends would all sleep with the woman if given the chance. Now, contrast that with your average guy of the same age. Chances are, he might not even have 25 female's numbers in his phone. Even if he did, the majority of them would NOT sleep with him if given the chance. These guys all know what it is to be stuck in the friend zone, and so do YOU.

Now, you are seeing that women clearly have an upper hand. They have choice, they have selection, and most importantly; they all have their own little following of male friends that will spend money on them with the hope that maybe one day they will get the chance to sleep with them.

So, how can you turn that around?

1. You have to become the one that is IN CONTROL.

Now, before you get this a little twisted, this is not about becoming dominant over women. That's a juvenile desire, and one that will not give you any real chance of becoming the kind of guy that young, attractive, independent minded women want to be with. Remember, if you had choice, you would want to get the best female possible. To gain *control,* you have to understand how the game works. You have to accept the fact that being a woman's best friend is not going to get you into her bedroom.

2. You have to be able to give the ILLUSION that you ARE highly desired.

Why do I emphasize the word illusion? Because, unless you are a George Clooney clone or a Brad Pitt look alike, then chances are, there are not a whole lot of women that are sweating the moment that they see you. But, you can give off the impression that you ARE highly desired. When I was younger, probably about 23, I did an experiment. For several weeks in a row, I made sure that when I went out, I always had at least three women with me that were definitely considered hot. And the difference in the amount of attention that I received from OTHER women, was eye opening. Just looking like I was the kind of guy that was very successful with women made other women want to come and talk to me. I did not even have to be the one that did the approach. They did it for ME.

3. Sex has to become a part of your language.

What I mean by this is, do not dance around the subject of sex or things that SOUND sexual. If you have ever seen the kind of language that is used in one of those romance novels that sell so well, you will see that the words themselves are very sexual. And even when they are being used in context other than the actual act of sex, they still give off that impression. The more you can make sex a part of your language and use that language when you talk to women, they will start to feel...aroused when talking to you.

by: Chris Tyler

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