Dating Tips For Men - Does Dating Really Just End Up Being A Crap Shoot?

Dating can easily end up seeming to be kind of a gamble

, a crap shoot for most guys. They often rely on random attraction, hoping that they will somehow end up with the right woman. Some guys will approach a ton of women, and count themselves lucky when they get one phone number. This kind of thinking leads to a lot of men settling in their personal life, happy just to have a woman that seems to be interested in them.

The question is, does it have to be that way?

Now, some people will automatically answer yes, because they have been conditioned to believe that this is just the way it is. Anything else to them is wishful thinking at best. In my experience, it does not have to be that way. As a guy, you really can learn how to have choice and selection when it comes to dating, and you don't have to count yourself lucky the minute you find any woman that shows any interest in you.

Here are some dating tips for men that work like a charm and will help YOU to have to choice in the dating scene:

1. Believe that you can attract any woman that you want.

I can remember when I was a little younger, and I really did not understand the way that the whole attraction and dating thing worked. A guy I knew that was pretty good at attracting women told me that he had the mindset that all women wanted him. At first, it sounded kind of like your typical false male bravado. Truth is, the more you lean towards thinking that you can attract any woman you want, the more you will find that it kind of starts to become true. You become confident around women, and that confidence is noticeable and it makes women feel an attraction to you, even if they do not realize WHY that is.

2. Have strict standards when it comes to dating.

Some guys might automatically think that this is kind of a jerky thing to do, but it's really not. If you will put up with anything, you will get anything. When you have standards, then things start to fall into place. What I mean by this is, most guys will have an attitude of "I'll take what I can get," when it comes to dating. So, they put up with a ton of attitude from a woman, and they don't strive to find someone better. You don't have to have that kind of an attitude. You really CAN choose which women you want to date.

3. Get used to taking charge.

Like I said, most guys have been taking what they can get for their whole lives when it comes to dating. You need to get used to the idea that you can take charge of your dating life and change things. You need to give yourself the feeling of having POWER, and that feeling can lead to a lot of pleasant changes. When you feel that way, you won't let a woman get away from you without you taking a chance and approaching her.

by: Chris Tyler

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