A revolting fallout of the current civilization: more than a fair number of professionals wind up alone
. Onerous and time-consuming work schedules have taken a damning toll of interactivity and socializing patterns. A survey conducted in 2006 estimated the singles' group at a staggering 92 million! And this statistic pertains to just one nation- the US. The mind boggles at the ballooning population of singles the world over.
We are not suggesting for a moment that there is something wrong in staying single; indeed, there are clubs in the US and in other parts of the world that actually celebrate singlehood. But the point is this: a lot of people would much rather be with someone than live out their existence all alone. That is the reason many loners seek out dating agencies and the services they have to offer.
Most dating agencies, especially the reputed ones, have a high success rate. And yet, first-time users are skeptical of approaching them. For starters, registering with an agency feels 'artificial' and 'unnatural' to them. Stuff and nonsense! Nothing could be natural than seeking a partner for life.
But before taking a plunge into the unknown, do make a point of asking around. The reason being there are several fakes out there who decamp after making a sizable loot. Approach only those agencies that have an established name.
A really good dating agency will size you up and if you are the shy type, will even counsel you on how to build relationships. Some provide chat forums and events like balls and dinners allowing you to mix and mingle till you find your potential date. You'll be surprised to learn how many people get paired off at the conclusion of such events.
Quite a few first timers try out two or more dating agencies. Since some of them do allow for a 'trial period' this won't burn too large a hole in your pocket.
Check out for certain things:
Feedback is essential, as we pointed out earlier. Also check out for customer service. Things like the client's privacy and security concerns, for instance. A dating agency that does not protect client confidentiality is a big no-no. An agency that does not have an in-built facility for reporting abusive behavior and harassment on the part of its other members is not worth the time of day either.
Just bear these tips in mind before setting out. Have a happy date!