Conversation Tips For Guys - 3 Ways To Make Talking To Women Seem Effortless

For most men, trying to make good conversation with women comes off as being anything but effortless

. You try to search your mind for the right things to say, hoping that you don't come across like some dork and that can put a lot of pressure on a situation that is supposed to be easy and almost effortless. If you are the kind of guy who finds that making small talk with women is more difficult than it should be, pay close attention. There are some simple ways that you can make it seem a lot easier than it is right now.

Here are 3 ways for making talking to a woman seem effortless for you:

1) Put it out of your mind that your conversation has to be flawless.

One of the easiest ways to make talking to a woman seem really difficult is to have the expectation that you are supposed to be flawless and not make any mistakes at all. Well, if you do that, then you are just setting yourself up for a situation where you ARE going to feel lots of pressure and if you feel lots of pressure, then you are going to feel like you need to put in a lot of effort. Forget about trying to be perfect in what you say, and just focus on getting the words out.

2) You'll always feel less stress if the conversation flows both ways.

A classic mistake that guys will make is that they feel like they have to do most or nearly all of the talking and of course that is going to make it seem like you need to put in massive amounts of effort. On the other hand, if you let her do her fair share of the talking, it will take off a lot of the pressure that you feel and it will make things flow a lot smoother. Remember, she needs to do her fair share of the talking if it is going to feel like a really amicable exchange.

3) Finding common ground with a woman right away will also make things easier for you.

The quicker that you can find some kind of a common interest with a woman, the quicker you will get to a place where you just feel like talking to her and you won't be thinking about what to say and how to say it. Finding common ground with someone is always going to make things feel a lot easier for you when you are trying to make good conversation with them.

by: A.J. Smith

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