Can't Talk to Girls? Know How to Fix It?
Can't Talk to Girls? Know How to Fix It?
Can't Talk to Girls? Know How to Fix It?
Have you experienced this - a girl is passing the street. Just a glance is enough to see she's the prettiest woman you've seen for...you don't remember since. You just have to walk across the street and talk to her.
Just walk and talk to her... that "just" isn't that simple as it sounds. This thing is also called approach anxiety. Let's see why this happens.
There are few usual reasons of this. Mostly fear of rejection, fear of embarrassment, being attached too much to the outcome and all kinds of similar issues. One part of you doesn't want you to go and put yourself in this risk. It wants you to STAY. At the same time another part of you wants to go and talk to the girl. It wants you to GO.
Go and stay and the same time? Not only impossible but it drains you completely of energy achieving nothing but more frustration.
Then you wonder how to fix that approach anxiety?
Best way is to start doing it. It reprograms itself with time and won't feel it that hard. "What? How? I just said I can't do it! How can you tell me to do it then?"
Start step by step. Don't jump in the heavy waters. You can follow those tips for easy start:
Put yourself in position that women come to you. That way you don't need to GO and face that approach anxiety. Sit on benches, coffee shop tables, bars and all other places where women just have to come near you for some reason. This way you'll start a conversation a lot more easily rather moving yourself first and then starting that conversation. It's a psychological thing - you already sit on that place, kind of like your territory. Feels more comfortable.
If you have trouble with the rejection, don't start with heavy talk. Just put a comment that doesn't require response. This way you won't be attached to the outcome - no matter if the girl responds back or not. Do this until you become more comfortable to start bigger conversations.
Keep in mind those two tips are only to make you feel more comfortable with this, so you can begin to GO and TALK in order to beat your approach anxiety. This is in no way more successful way to talk to girls, but it will be easier for you to start doing something so you can improve it later.
Better start small right now rather than doing nothing and beating yourself!
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