You and your boyfriend have broken up and it has left you devastated. You are angry and feel a sense of loneliness like you have not experienced before. Do you feel like you want to get him to come back to you? If you think there is a chance then there are some things you can do to help make it happen. How about trying something that is a little out of the ordinary? First thing you need to do is just go ahead and grieve over your break up. Its been said that going through a relationship break up can be as stressful as grieving over a loved ones death. Go ahead and deal with this so you can get it behind you and start to think clearly again. When your to the point that you think you are thinking clearly again, ask yourself if you still want to get your ex boyfriend back or if its time to move on. If you still want to pursue him now, you must understand why the break up happened and that the two of you may be equally at fault. Work out the problem from your end, if it means making changes to yourself do it. After a break up, a mans ego and self esteem are hurt just as much if not more than a womans. To help boost his ego you can apologize to him if you where at fault over something. Doing this will help smooth out the way for future attempts you will make to get him back. What you do next is continue to bolster his ego in any way you can when opportunities arise. As time goes by you should be getting more talkative together and friendlier with him. When the two of you talk do not bring up any past issues that could restart any problems you once had, make things easy on yourself. About the Author: