A Couple Wedding Details Worth Some Consideration
There are a million and a half things to think about and plan when youre going to get married
. From place card holders to multi-tiered cakes, from jewelry to seating charts, the list seems both endless and random. Here are some of the most important things to consider, and how to make sure their details do not go unnoticed.
Photography is one of the most important parts of a wedding. Think about it, after the even all youll have is your memories to rely on without great pictures. How reliable is your memory on any random day, when everything isnt going by in a rush and you arent worried about all the different things that can go wrong? Not only will great pictures remind you of the all the wonderful moments of your special day, but they will also allow you to share some of your joy with people that werent able to make it. This is especially important if you opted to have a small wedding, as there will be plenty of people who want to know what it was like.
Its not just enough to hire the first photographer you meet. There are a lot of factors to take into consideration when selecting who is going to take those photos. Are you only going to have one person, or multiple? Do you want them to be there just for the ceremony and reception, or do you want them involved for the whole day? How aggressive do you want them to be? Is it better for them to get the perfect shot, or to not intrude at all on the proceedings? What type of camera do you want them to use, and what sort of style do you want the pictures to have? Do they need to capture those unique placecard holders you picked out yourself at an antique sale? Make sure you work these things out as thoroughly as possible beforehand to ensure that when you flip through the photos after the honeymoon you see the same wonderful wedding you remembered attending.
Your vows are another detail that sometimes can go woefully ill-considered. After all, there are so many other big and pricey items that scream for attention that it can be easy to forget about this small, totally free, yet incredibly meaningful part of the day. The first big question you want to ask yourself is whether you want to use traditional vows, or whether you want to write original ones yourself. If you decide to work with traditional vows, you still have a few options. After all, you can select beautiful and meaningful vows that you didnt write yourself that none-the-less express how you feel. The most traditional vows can feel a little outdated and overplayed, but that doesnt mean you cant explore poems and other verses that you wish to say at your wedding.
If you decide to write your own vows, you should remember a few things. First, you need to remember to relax about it. If youre overly concerned with what everyone is going to think about what you wrote, youre going to end up putting down something bland and lacking in both color and meaning. As in all writing, the first rule is to simply strive to be honest. Be true to how you feel and what you care to express to this person, and you cant go wrong.
Of course, you might not be a great writer, and while total honesty can be endearing, in those cases its a good idea to sit down with someone who knows how to use their words and have them help you construct something that allows you to express how you feel honestly, without stumbling over your words.
by: Aaron Hu
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