Use your bridal shower to help cover some of the basics like your guest book and pen
, toasting flutes, cake serving set, unity candle and holder, etc. Pick out your favorites and provide the catalog or website information to your maid of honor or whomever is hosting your shower. This way, your friends and family can have the opportunity to get you something you really need and will cherish for years to come instead of another toaster or a set of towels.