5 Thoughts On A Wedding That Flows Almost Perfectly
Everyone wants their wedding day to be absolutely perfect
, to be the best day of their lives where nothing goes wrong. While weddings are absolutely special events, it's pretty unreasonable to expect everything to flow completely smoothly. After all, marriages are really complicated events with a million little things that can slip up, and chances are at least a couple of them are going to. Here are 5 of the more common mistakes that plague weddings days that you can plan for.
The first thing you need to do, way before you start any of the more complicated planning, is decide where your priorities are. What are the aspects of the day that are most important to you? Is a really great cake most important? Have you had a specific dress in mind since you were a child? Do you know this one photographer that absolutely has to be the one to take your photos? Whatever it is, decide what the top most important aspects of your special day are.
Knowing your priorities helps in a number of ways. In terms of budgeting and spending, knowing where you're going to get the most satisfaction for your dollar helps you decide where to splurge and where to spend. In terms of insuring that the most important things go smoothest, knowing what really matters gives you a focus, it lets you know where to make sure everything will go well. If you don't care as much about the flowers, you don't need to spend too much time and attention on making sure they are perfect. If you absolutely need to perfect personalized wedding favors, then you know to be obsessive making sure all the personalized favor boxes are just right for each guest.
Of course, while I think it's important to spend more time on those things that matter the most to you, I don't recommend micro-managing anything. No one likes to be micromanaged, both because it's annoying to have someone over your shoulder the whole time making sure you don't slip up, and also because it doesn't give you the confidence to do your best job. Most people work best when they are given clear instructions that indicate where they can flexible and where they need to stick to the plan. Give each person working on your event clear yet flexible instructions, and then let them do their job. Provided you hired people whom you trust and whose work you like, you will be happy with the end result- and both of you will be happier and more relaxed with the process.
Speaking of trust, it's pretty vital you hire a talented and experienced wedding planner for your big day. The way I always think about it- weddings are like big theatrical events, they are like plays, and you would never throw a play without a director. It's your job to be one of the stars, so pass off the majority of the responsibility for putting the day together to a professional. There's enough to stress and worry about surrounding your big day without having to handle every single detail. Find someone who has been there before, talk with hem at length, then relax and follow their guidance! After all, the number one rule for having a perfect wedding is relaxing... and remembering that the best you can honestly hope for is perfectly imperfect.
by: Aaron Hu.
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