subject: What Can You Do To Make Some Girl To Fall For You [print this page] To get a girl to love you, you have to be, bold, ever bold and everywhere bold, as Goethe, something of a Don Juan himself (apologies to his compatriots) said. Faint of heart never wins the fair hand, goes another proverb. If you are the Marlon Brando or Elvis Presley type, or even one of those millionaire CEOs (money and power are aphrodisiacs), this is not your problem and you do not need the advice that follows.
Dem muetigen gehort die Welt, goes the German proverb, meaning the courageous shall conquer the world.
For discussions sake, let us suppose you are neither Apollo nor Rockefeller (both do help, since money and power are known to be potent aphrodisiacs). You are an average guy in every sense of the word (single, let us grant for the sake of property), and you have really set your heart on a certain Jane, maybe college mate or colleague at office, a good looking girl with a mind of her own, nobody walkover.
For John, sighing days are over, and he stands up to act and to strategize. Decision has crystallized and unbeknownst to herself, Jill has become a quarry, and John the determined tracker.
Wooing is not a matter of tricks of the trade, but a thing of the heart. It is a matter of making an inner commitment and putting it into action. James (suppose) is serious and really intends marriage. In that case, courtship is a prolonged process of negotiating a big deal. Even if James is not thinking so far ahead, even flirting or having an affair is the same thing a little lower down in the spectrum. Jane, as classmate or similar is accessible, and you do not have to climb a wall to catch a glimpse or exchange words.
Go ahead, take the step, and take another, and risk being snubbed and scarred, anything is better than being defeated, and huddling up in despair in your proverbial attic. Be bold, be bold and everywhere be bold! is sage advice from no less than Goethe.
Love is more giving than taking. You dress well, you put forth the best of yourself, you show your worthiness and worth, not for your own sake alone, not because of a toy you desire, but because human relations, including that which goes by the name love, is a two-lane traffic, and, if this is not too philosophical, giving is receiving.
To get a girl to love you, you have to love her first, no matter how one-sided it is, and press on till you slay the beloved adversary with the arrows in your quiver.
by: Wendell John-Baptiste
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