subject: How to Pick Up Women: The Power of ‘Yes’ [print this page] Author: David Sherva Author: David Sherva
How to Pick Up Girls: The Power of Yes Everyone, male or female, feels an important need to be consistent in the things they say, do and feel. If were flaky and liable to change at the drop of a hat what we believe or have promised, we know that people are likely to judge and mistrust us. This commonly felt sense of importance regarding the need to be consistent within ourselves can be exploited when attempting to seduce a woman. One seduction technique that makes use of this concept is called The Power of Yes. Heres a common scenario most men have experienced at some point or another in their lives. You find yourself talking to a girl, maybe you approached her and consciously started a conversion, or perhaps the chat began unplanned, naturally. Either way, youre enjoying each others company. After a while, it dawns on you that you and the girl youre talking to are going to have to go your separate ways pretty soon, which poses a slight dilemma: how can you make it so this isnt the first and last time you two are together and instead arrange for it to progress into something further? The obvious route to take is to perform a closer. A closer is when you make a conscious effort to get a girls number, swap both your numbers, arrange to meet up again soon, or otherwise cross that social getting to know you line. Thing is, you dont want your closer to crash and burn, you want the girl to happily agree to whatever it is you suggest. So how can help ensure that happens? You use psychology, specifically, The Power of Yes technique. The technique involves getting the girl youre interacting with to give several positive yes responses to your questions in quick succession. Doing so helps develop an internal sense of positivity in the female that carries over in her mind to when you perform the actual closer and tips the balance in the direction of agreement to your request or suggestion. You can do this by using subtle and casual responses after she says things, like: Really? and Do you? Match your response to what shes just said and ensure it takes the form of a question that youre sure will prompt a yes response from her. Getting between 3 and 6 of these positive responses is usually enough to allow the principle to work. At the same time, avoid asking questions or saying things near the end of your conversation, just before youre about to close, that could possibly evoke negative reactions or no responses from the female. The reason this technique works so well is because of the natural human phenomenon mentioned at the start of this article that people feel its important to be consistent and congruent in the things they say and the situation theyre in. After responding to you positively half a dozen times, a natural inclination is created in the females mind for saying yes shes gotten used to it. When you finally suggest going for a bite to eat tomorrow or visiting that museum together you told her about, the most natural and consistent response in her mind is a responding Yes!it just feels right.About the Author:
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