subject: Why It's Important To Support Your Spouse In Their Mlm Business [print this page] This is going to be a bit of a different article, because I'm aiming this not really so you, as a distributor can see the value of having your husband, wife, or significant other supporting you (I think you know) - but really, I'm writing to all of the husbands, wives, boyfriends, girlfriends, and 'whatever else' is out there in relationship land, and it's my hope that I can help you - just for one second understand why your boyfriend has 'gone crazy'.
Lol.
Seriously - I know how tough of a business this can be on relationships sometimes, and taking a look at it, there's no question why. It used to be that your husband would come home from work, eat dinner, get close to you and tell you how much better he'd be at the job than that stupid boss - and then you'd cuddle and watch movies until you collapsed from exhaustion.
Not any more.
Now, your hubby gets home, pumped up, hops on the computer and talks to people until you've got to drag him away, kicking and screaming and tell him that he'll lose his job if he doesn't wake up tomorrow. You think he's gone nuts - I mean, just a week ago, wasn't he pumped up about work and just satisfied with life?
Ladies and gents (you know who you are) let me just talk to you straight, because I know that your gal loves you too much to just tell it like it is.
We (the dreamers of the world) are NOT satisfied with a menial, 9-5 'kiss the bosses behind' lifestyle, have never liked our stupid job, don't see a future in it, and think that it's wrong, lame, and a grinder 'slave trade' existence to wake up at 6am to make less spendable income than a coal miner made in the 1930's.
(A special note on inflation and the 'wonderful' way the USA handles currency - to live an equivalent lifestyle to a grinder - coal miner in 1930, you'd have to NET over $400,000 a year in today's dollars).
It is NOT because we love the computer more than you, want to market till 2am, or think 'David Wood' and Randy Gage are Gods - it's because we are SICK AND TIRED of being SICK AND TIRED, and we see MLM (crazy as it may be) as a way to free ourselves from the grind - and...
...we need your support, BADLY.
Let me have a quick heart to heart in the first person (I know, strange article).
When I got started marketing my business online - I worked 18 hours a day, at least 6 days a week for a month straight before I made ANY money - and my check was about $350. If you broke that down, it would have been better to work at McDonalds - and to any outsider, it would have seemed that almost any job would have been better.
One night after writing about 20 articles, talking to people all day and having my only presentation have EVERY SINGLE PROSPECT hang up, I went into my room, curled up in a ball and started crying in my wife's lap. (I know - you'd never think such a 'manly' tough person would cry. Lol.) - and I told my wife that I was about ready to quit - I literally thought I couldn't take one more second of failure in this industry. You know what she told me?
"Don't you EVER give up on your dreams - I don't care if I have to work menial labor for the rest of my life and you fail till the day you die - the SECOND you stop dreaming is the moment you stop being the man I fell in love with" (or - something like that).
You know what happened? About 60 days later, I had been sponsoring about 7 people a week for 5 weeks straight, and I had a breakthrough moment and made more than $12k in 2 hours. That week I made more than $28,525 in less than 7 days and since then I've never had a week that I've made less than $5k, and I've had more weeks that were just as high.
I've had a day where I've sponsored 51 people in a single day, generated more than 300 leads in a single day, made friends all over the world, moved from Alaska to Costa Rica, paid cash for my cars, won a BMW, won two all expense paid luxury vacations - including a cruise to the Bahamas, won a Mac Book Pro for my wife - and RIGHT NOW I live in a beach house in Playa Palo Seco, marketing online with my bills paid six months cash in advance.
Was it worth it for my AMAZING wife to wait for my success? YES. Just one year ago we were living in a Van, completely broke.
Will your husband/wife/lover/boyfriend/something do the same? I don't know - what I DO know, is that they WILL NOT make it happen without you. They need you.
You know who my BEST FRIEND in the world is? It's my wife, Ashley Marie Needles, and I love that girl with my whole heart - she's my partner, my friend, my lover, and most importantly - the biggest supporter that a man could ever hope for. It's because of HER that I can accredit all my success.
Ladies - PLEASE support your husbands dreams and husbands - PLEASE support your wives. They need you more than you can imagine and TRUST ME, it's worth it, and they ARE NOT crazy.
by: David Michael Wood.
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