subject: I Cheated On My Wife - How Do I Stop My Divorce? [print this page] I had done something that I never thought I would do. I cheated on my wife and I know that if there is one thing she would never forgive it would be cheating. I had decided not to tell my wife because I knew she would leave me, but now that she knew she might file a divorce which I don't want.
Sound familiar? For many men out there this is a steady mantra. It keeps them going and drives them to get out there and try so hard to save the marriage they are in serious risk of losing because they cheated.
Myth #1 - Cheating has to end in divorce.
Cheating is not exclusive in a specific group of men. It has nothing to do with race, religion, or economic status. Since you belong to the group of mean who cheated on their wives, you might as well look into the other men's situation so you can say if you really deserve a second chance or a divorce.
More likely you want to get your family back, or bring the trust of your wife back, but you can't also get away with the shame attached to your cheating. Trust does not happen overnight. Everybody wants to save their marriage, but there is still that guilt feeling that kills you every second of the day to the extent that the other part of you says you really deserve to be punished.
Believe You Deserve a Second Chance
The first thin you have to do if you really want to stop your divorce is believe that you deserve a second chance. Cheating doesn't make you a bad person. We all make mistakes and we've all learned some pretty hard lessons in life.
This is something you can work through if both of your are willing and the odds are good that she didn't just turn off her feelings for you the moment she found out. That means there's still time for you to work a little magic of your own to get her back.
You Deserve a Second Chance
The next step is to convince her to give you the second chance you want. It might seem like a shot in the dark but you might be surprised by her response if you ask, with your heart on your sleeve, her to forgive you and give you one more chance to make things right between the two of you.
Yes, she deserves to know what you ought to do now that both of you are in limbo. She needs to know your plans after she found out you cheated on her. She has to know that you are sorry for what you did. She must know that you still love her and is more than willing to start anew.
by: T Dub Jackson.
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