subject: Be Apprehensive About Dating Him [print this page] If you've ever seen day time tv shows, you know the common theme regarding dating couples'. Don't give up on love, because it will come when you least expect it, or the strongest romances are between long time friends. You see these feel good stories on shows like Oprah, or some other well known show. These are always great stories to hear about, but there are alot of things that aren't quite as compelling to hear about...
There is always the negative things that you don't hear about as often. Like accepting a person for all their ways, good and bad. This means to just throw down your guard and let him be the way he is whethe it's positive or negative. I cannot agree with this whatsoever. It's basically like being submissive and letting other things control the way you want your life to be. I would never settle for that. I would never put down my guard and let a person get away with their bad habits.
For grea, if a man and woman are having a magical relationship together. Things are going splendidly. These people share many things in common, they both like many of the same things, and they connect on many levels; physically, emotionally, mentally, etc. The relationship has just gotten past the point where these people feel very comfortable with each other, and they are in love and are ready for sex.
Everything is great, until the girl finds out that the guy has a former lover, or girl who is a friend, who he still talks to on a regular basis. He hasn't told her about this girl, and this just shows his deceitfulness. But, because she feels she is in love with him, she accepts his ways, and lets' his habit of talking to his former lover (or "girl friend" that could turn potentially worse) continue. And it's normal in the dating community that we must accept these flaws, because if you don't you may lose possible love.
The fact of the matter is, that you never have to settle for less than you really want in a man. If he has some qualities that you absolutely love, but then you discover things that you don't like about him. You don't have to accept these things.
There are so many men out there who have everything you could ever want and more. Don't just accept flaws, or habits that you are unhappy about. They are not good for you in the long-run. You will always have dissatisfaction on some level deep down inside.
You must exercise your ability to be apprehensive about guys. If anyone violates what you accept, make sure they change it, otherwise find someone else!
by: David Dryden
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