subject: What Women Really Want from Men (and How They Can Give it to Them) [print this page] By Otto Collins By Otto Collins
Do you ever wish that you could read your woman's mind in order to better understand what she really wants?
A movie that came out several years ago was about a man who, after an accident involving water and a hair dryer, can hear the thoughts of the women who cross his path. This new ability is eye-opening and life-changing for the man.
While you may not actually want to have the ability to hear everything that the women (or men) around you are thinking, you might be eager to get a clearer idea of how to please your girlfriend or your wife.
You might feel frustrated or even inept when it comes to keeping her happy and satisfied. It could seem to you that your efforts to treat her well fall short or don't happen at all, despite your best intentions.
While you probably can't literally read your woman's mind, you can benefit from this advice. I've heard straightforward and honest feedback from hundreds of our online female readers.
This is one thing that they had to say about what they REALLY want from the men in their lives...
Women want to feel special, adored, and even treasured.
When you can hear this information and you follow through by giving your partner what she really wants, you will benefit too. Your relationship will become more enjoyable, passionate and probably even easier.
Tips to help you make your woman feel special, adored and even treasured...
#1: Tune in to her preferences.
You might assume that any woman would like to have flowers and chocolates, but this isn't always the case all of the time. Don't settle into a rut when it comes to gifts and gestures.
You could ask your woman to tell you some specific things that she likes and that make her feel special. Use her responses as your guide.
Nobody likes to be predictable, but nobody likes their efforts to miss the mark.
Pay attention to your woman when she mentions that she loves a particular restaurant, type of flower, book, CD, or other preferences. Remember this information when a special occasion arises or when you feel like presenting her with a special something for no reason at all.
Making your woman feel adored does not have to cost you any money at all.
If she has tight shoulders and enjoys massage, for example, lighting candles, playing soft music and offering her a shoulder massage could be a wonderful way for you to show her how important she is to you.
#2: Go the extra mile.
If you want your woman to feel treasured and special to you, it's definitely a good idea to expressly honor her on special occasions such as anniversaries, birthday and other holidays.
However, in order to truly keep her happy, it's vital that you go the extra mile in between these special occasions.
Going the extra mile does not have to be a burden on you or just one more thing on your "to do" list. In fact, if making your woman feel special feels like a burden, you're approaching this all wrong!
Challenge yourself to spend a few moments each and every day appreciating your woman-- think about all that she is and all that she does for you. Be with those feelings of love, passion and gratitude that come up.
From that place, you will undoubtedly know how best to make her feel adored and treasured.
This might mean that you make it a point to tell her how sexy she looks in a certain dress. It could mean that you look her in the eyes and tell her how lucky you are to have such a talented and intelligent woman as your partner.
#3: Honor her where she is right now.
A huge way that you can let your woman know how important she is to you is to honor her where she is right now.
This does NOT mean that you tell her how pretty she'll be once she loses those extra 10 lbs. (more or less) and it does NOT mean that you only reach out to her with affection and appreciation after you two have made love.
Your woman probably wants to know that you find her attractive, interesting and special even when she's not at her best.
Again, challenge yourself to noticing those things about your woman (this is not only about her body either) that you can genuinely appreciate and admire. Let her know how much you respect, honor and are attracted to all of who she is at this moment.
What Women Really Want from Men (and How They Can Give it to Them)
By: Susie and Otto Collins
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