subject: Rebounding From A Bad Breakup [print this page] Do you ever get the feeling that the relationship you are in is failing and you don't know what to do to save it?You wake up one morning and finally decide that it's over. Have you have been feeling like this for a while. And now finally you have had enough and tell your lover it's over. Whatever reason you have, its time to say enough is enough. Many of us feel this way all the time, but then it happens.
"I have had it" "I cant take it anymore" "That's the final straw" Have you heard these sayings before? And have you heard these sayings coming out of your own mouth as of recent? If it's coming from you or your significant other, there are obvious problems that need to be addressed.
First of all, keeping to yourself and showing strength in your survival is essential. Before you can figure out how to mend a broken heart, stay below the radar for a while and allow them to think as well. See how their emotions play out. You see, they are human also, and if you are dealing with a breakup, they are too.
The fact is that people need attention, be it positive or negative. When you don't call or text message anymore means that you have created a void in their life. People can not deal with silence during a hard time like break ups. They need a sense of closure or they just want to know whats going on right now. They themselves develop a curious feeling and wonder about the other person, and this in turn will make them want to have you back in the worst way.
Keep in mind, you cannot allow yourself to become victim to this theory. In attempting to get your ex back, it can become very difficult for yourself and you will come to the realization that healing hearts do not mend easily. Once you acknowledge the reasons to break up, it will put you in the drivers seat with dealing with a break up.
Trying the dating scene at this time can be harmful to the recovery of your relationship. Discreet relationships during a break up will only cause more heartache, especially to the rebound relationship, who most likely does not know that you still have an interest with your ex, although you tell her you are through with her.
Rebounding From A Bad Breakup
By: Art Tupaczewski
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