subject: Good Men Do Cheat On Their Wives: What Made Them Do This? [print this page] Good men just don't go cheat their wives without a reason. It's hard to believe that good men cheat on their wives but that's the truth. Cheating will not make them disqualify for the "good man club", (if there's any), although it may stain his image in the eyes if his beloved wife.
The fact that we are mere humans and that alone makes us subject to mistakes and imperfections makes your husband a good example of this. We are surrounded by imperfect beings like us, and this fact will help those good men out their and husbands who had committed humongous mistake in their lives to held their heads up high despite this shortcoming. It also serves as excuse for forgiving him for the mistake he committed just like he forgives you with the mistakes you've committed.
But you might wonder how can he cheat on his wife if he loves him so much and in fact he is supposed to be a good man?
Bear in mind that cheating has a little or anything to do with love. For most men, cheating does not involve love, it's just physical. It is a man's way of getting what he wanted without compromising himself with the responsibility of his action, unlike marriage that comes with a great responsibility.
Also, many men feel that with other women, pastures are greener but they soon realize that at the back of it comes a whole bunch of problems. Here are some things that drive good men into the arms of other woman:
Nagging
This is a major offense, as what we can call it for most men. They hate it when they are nagged about theiur faults. Men do believe that the world revolves around them, and by asking him to do things for you or do things they haven't done yet, you are asking him for a thing that doesn't exist.
More importantly, you're filling him in on the fact that you actually believe he has (gasp) faults. I know it's hard to believe but men really are sensitive - especially when it comes to you pointing out potential flaws.
Strain
Most men want their homes to be their castles. They want it to be their private fortress away from all the worries of the world. They want to go home and "veg" out in front of the television, computer, video game, or hobby project of the moment, be fed, and then go to bed. If they are lucky they want a little action at some point during the fun and festivities.
He doesn't want to be bothered with a messy house, scrounging for dinner, dealing with kids, baths, and homework, or running a thousand or so errands. While this is not always practical it is what he wants. To avoid stress related cheating you need to sit down together and come up with a system that allows you both to feel like you're getting what you need from the 'after work' rituals in your home and each have an opportunity to experience real stress relief.
by: T Dub Jackson.
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