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By Otto Collins
By Otto Collins

Even if you don't feel comfortable talking about (or even admitting it to yourself), having more of that passionate, connecting sexual intimacy with your wife is probably on your mind...at least some of the time.

Despite the stereotypes that are shown in movies and on television that men ONLY care about or want sex from their wives, of course, you-- and your relationship-- are more complex than this.

It's probable that you prefer it when you and your woman have a good time together, talking, joking around, socializing with others, caring for your family, even doing household chores.

AND, it's also probable that you enjoy having sex with your wife. In fact, you might like it if you two had more time, energy, opportunity, etc. to have more sex.

There's nothing wrong with this desire!

Here is one secret that married men who have all the sex that they want with their wives know...

The secret is not a specific position, get-away location, piece of jewelry, sensual song or certain type of chocolate...

The secret that men who have a satisfying and fulfilling sex life with their wives know is this: They listen and follow through.

These men who get the level and frequency of sexual intimacy with their wives that they want are engaged and caring listeners to their women both inside and outside the bedroom.

As you might already know, if you want more closeness and passion inside the bedroom, it's essential for you to open up to more closeness, engagement and passion outside the bedroom too.

If your wife asks you to do something that you absolutely detest and you only say "yes" to "get her off your back," this is NOT a good way to later have the sexual intimacy you might be craving. Chances are, you will not do that detested chore or favor for her and this will lead to tension and distance between you two.

It's really very simple.

Focus on the conversation that you are having with your woman and be honest about what you are willing and unwilling to do regarding the topic you are discussing. Open up to resolutions that will help both of you get your needs met.

Then, be sure you follow through and actually do whatever it is you agreed to do.

This might pertain to how you literally are with one another when you make love. Be attentive to her sexual needs. Ask her how she likes to be touched and romanced before, during and after you make love.

It might also pertain to something like your relationship with her parents, fixing the leaky faucet in the bathroom or another issue. If you are busy or feel distracted, set aside time when you both can focus on this discussion.

Listen, engage and follow through-- believe it or not, these actions will help you enjoy more sex with your wife.

One Amazing Secret of Married Men Whose Wives Give Them All the Sex They Want

By: Susie and Otto Collins




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