subject: Online Dating - Attract Quality Men to Your Profile [print this page] The key to attracting a man's attention online is your photo. Hands down, men are visual creatures. You should have a series of pictures attached to your profile. The main photo should be either a glam shot or a library shot. Which one depends on who you are trying to attract.
A glam shot will attract the most responses; however, you will attract more men who have superficial wants and low self-esteem. That's not to say you won't attract Mr. Right either. You just have to understand that your inbox will be full of messages from men looking for sexual hookups and self-validation.
A library shot is where you are dressed for a casual date and seated in a comfortable chair. You want to display a head-tilt, a happy smile, and a bit of an eyebrow raise to show approachability.
The rest of your profile pictures should be action shots of you doing something you. If you are into tennis, then post a shot of you playing tennis.
I get asked on many occasions what type of pictures does a coach potato put up. If your favorite activity is watching television, then get a picture of you watching television. Just make sure the picture shows you doing something. If reading the newspaper or book is something you like to do, then a profile picture of you looking over the newspaper at something in the distance is a great way to show you are cerebral or a homebody. It is perfectly acceptable to stage your pictures.
Posting a goofy picture of yourself is also a great way to show your fun side. Make sure the goofiness isn't too severe as to frighten someone away. Also, never, ever post a shot of you with someone else's arm, hand or body part around you. Do not post pictures of your children under any circumstances even if they are grown.
The words used in your profile also depend on what type of response you are looking for. You will attract a lot of sexual conquistadors with words about how you like long, slow kisses on a hot August night. However, if marriage material is what you wish to attract, you need to keep your profile light and general. Create a paragraph or two of what you like to do. After perusing your photo, he'll want to know if your hobbies match his.
What you don't want to put in your profile, are feeling words like, kind-hearted, thoughtful, honest, etc. or anything about looking for a good, honest, hardworking man. The words sound judgmental and already set a standard that he must live up to. If you are getting contacted with unqualified men (i.e. married, only looking for sex, etc.) don't put in your profile anything about this either. These words equate to drama and with all the choices men have online, you may not make the cut.
Remember to keep all your communications to each other on an acquaintance level. You don't know these people, and they don't know you. Telling them your deepest darkest secrets may be tempting, but you should use restraint. Think of how you develop a friendship with another female. You don't jump in the first few moments telling each other how honest and sincere you are. Each of you learns this about each other as you go through your actions, not your words.
Once you've put together the profile you want, have someone else proof the words and photo captions to make sure they are grammatically correct and are an honest portrayal of who you are to others. Post the profile, and enjoy what comes in. You should get some great winks.
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Online Dating - Attract Quality Men to Your Profile
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