subject: Essence of Female Nature [print this page] The essence of female nature is energyThe essence of female nature is energy. The essence of male nature is being a unit that is influenced by the energy. We, female and male, are equal as human beings, but our nature is different.
If we don't understand this difference, we tend to have conflicts, disappointments and frustration with each other. As a result, we can observe in our current society majority of women are dissatisfied with men, majority of men are dissatisfied with themselves.
Notice when a man appears in a new organization (or in a group of friends), there is no much change in the atmosphere. Everything stays quite stable. But when a woman join a group of people, there is always the change: others begin to feel different a little different or a lot different but not as usual. It depends which energy the lady adds.
Let's take another example family. It is always in a woman's power what atmosphere is at home. If she is happy, relaxed and satisfied, the whole family feels this way. When she is upset, angry and not pleased, there will be conflicts, misunderstandings or tension at home.
Therefore, it is crucial for every woman to realize that she is the energy that influences everything around. Especially her man. Through her emotions she influences on the emotional state of her man. Because the connection between him and her is so great, that sometimes the only thing a man can do to change his emotional state is to satisfy the woman or go to another woman to recharge himself.
And this is actually the reason why men cheat they look for the way to recharge themselves. They need energy to recharge their emotional well-being.
For example, when a girlfriend scolds her man, she put him down emotionally. In this situation he is hungry for the positive energy. He is emotionally starving. To survive he needs some energy which he might get from another woman who will make him feel good. Do you see? He doesn't have much choices because it is not always easy to please a woman who is never can be pleased!
In order to have a good life as a woman, start paying attention to your female nature. Keep an eye on how you influence the world around you. Notice how your emotional state makes impact on the atmosphere at home, at work, in your relationships, or in certain situations with others.
