subject: Dating Secrets For Men - Exposing 3 Myths That Hold You Back [print this page] Myths are pretty abundant and so are generalizations that don't hold much weight when it comes to dating. The bad thing is, most men end up believing them, and it ends up getting in the way of their potential success in dating. So, you might be wondering, what are these myths and how can it benefit you by exposing them?
Well, for starters, you need to really know what you are dealing with, when it comes to dating, And also, a lot of men end up letting so many opportunities to meet, attract, and date beautiful women pass them by because of their beliefs in these dating myths.
Here are 3 myths that will definitely hold you back:
Myth #1- You have to be a perfect gentleman to attract women.
The reason why I say this is a myth is not to promote the idea that you should be a jerk to a woman, but in the fact that most guys think that being a perfect gentleman really means that they have to be "perfect." Look, you put way too much pressure on yourself if you are trying to be perfect when you are on a date.
You will over think every moment, and spend more time trying to suck up to her then you will creating attraction with a woman. This is when you really need to be your imperfect self just a little and not sweat the small stuff on a date.
Myth #2- She cares about the car you drive.
I had a friend that really thought he had a way with the women. And since we had not seen each other in a while, he thought that I could not step up to his level. Anyways, we went out to go meet women one night, and we had the choice of whose car to drive. He opted for his, because in his words, my car was a pile of junk. It wasn't too bad, just not as nice as his. So, we get to the club, and I am doing way better than he is.
To try and downplay me in front of this one girl, he makes an offhanded comment about my car. Her reply was, I could care less about what kind of car you drive. For the most part, most of the women that you meet are not going to shoot you down because of the car that you drive. By the way, I ended up going home with a woman that night, and my friend, he had to drive home alone in his "better" car.
Myth # 3- You have to have the right line all of the time.
This is another myth that really adds nothing but unnecessary pressure on a guy. Trying to pull out the most perfect line is basically like setting yourself up for a failure. I think a lot of guys use this myth to explain why they fail with a woman. It couldn't be for any reason other than not having the right line, could it?
Truth is, the more natural you come off with a woman, the better. True, you need to make a good impression and you want her to continue to see you as having high social value, but if you don't have the best line at the right time, it does not have to be a deal breaker. I remember one time I used a line that totally bombed, it was supposed to get this woman to laugh and all it got was silence. Still, I brushed it off, and I still wound up getting her number, so obviously it was not the end of the world.
by: Chris Tyler
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